Psychology versus The Magic of Making Up
Whenever we hit a rough patch in a relationship, we seek someone to talk about it. That is a basic trait of human psychology: we need to tell other people about our p
roblems, and afterwards we usually feel relieved and better prepared to meet the challenge. No one knows more about this human impulse than store cashiers do. They are constantly listening to their customers’ personal troubles.
Talking to the stranger in the supermarket can make us feel better, but it has its drawbacks. We are entrusting our intimate secrets to someone we do not really know, and that could even be magic of making up review dangerous in the precarious world of ours. Besides, if we receive advice, how can we decide whether it is sound or not?
We are better off relying on professional services such as the e-book “The Magic of Making Up.” True, they cannot satisfy our instinctive impulse to be heard. However, they can provide us with better strategies to solve our problems, and we can always find other ways to meet our psychological needs.